An older experienced top recognizes that Submission is its own, independent, autonomous kink. And consequently that he may be object of Submission at least as often as the cause.

This doesn’t change how I top. Not a bit! It just makes it harder to forget that we’re partners, aren’t we.

I loathe the phrase “Submission is a gift.” Subs are often pretty goddamn grateful to have someone able to play with them the way they want to be. But recognizing Submission is its own, equal and opposite kink to mine kink makes it easier to remember your submissivion isn’t a goddamn entitlement either.

C’mere, pumpkin, kneel at my feet while Daddy decides what to do with you, for you, and… to you.