As a Dominant
If you think consent can’t be sexy as fuck, try making her beg and plead for you to do the awful things she wants you to do. Tell her you won’t give her what she wants until she earns it. Give her a piece of paper and make her write down, in detail, exactly what she wants while she’s on her hands and knees. Then make sure she signs it, “Your pathetic fucktoy, First and Last name.”
Hold it in front of her face and question her about how proud her friends and family would be of her if they knew what a whore she was. Growl at her and ask her again if this is really what she wants? Is she really this depraved?
Then give it to her, but only if she’s earned it.
Vanilla mild or Serrano hot, the point remains: consent isn’t an obstacle, it’s an opportunity.