Back in the 20th Century, vanilla types made a giant fetish about “simultaneous orgasms.” From dick-only fucking. Because anything else was considered “a little kinky.” Heh.
Then along came “she comes first,” which was admittedly a big step up from “she comes if she can come just from dick.” But that too was based on a 20th Century assumption that it was the man’s job to “provide” orgasms because women were still seen as largely passive recipients of men’s “prowess.”
Here in the 21st Century we’ve got a hell of a lot more options, don’t we, teacup? Mmhmm, we really do!
Come for Daddy!