barnvs:

no other person on this planet was made for you, they were made for themselves. love is all about choices. no one is going to be perfect for you, and i think we need to stop raising everyone on the belief that someone out there, just one other person in the whole world, was “made for you” because it isn’t true. no one is made for you, besides you. other people belong to themselves. if you want to make it work with someone, it’s about hard work, understanding, compassion, communication, and choice

Turn it around to get a better perspective on this. How often do you think “I was made for him?” How do you tell others “I complete her?”

Eww, right?

In what diary… where in ten thousand twitter or Tumblr posts has anyone said “I shall spend my life waiting for the one I was made for?”

Ewww, right?

And let’s say someone comes up to you and says “you were made for me, hop in the shopping cart, I’m checking out with you!”

Ewwwww, right?

To be human is to already be made for yourself. To be human is to learn that you’re already complete.

So don’t go laying that job on anyone else.