naked-yogi:

breaking news: you can find someone sexually attractive and still not want to have sex with them

Shame it’s always breaking news.  It ought to be obvious.

But, yeah, hard lesson maybe but you gotta learn it.

Even more important?  You really gotta learn the corollary!

“Someone can find you sexually attractive and still not want to have sex with you.”

“Wants to have sex” doesn’t automatically mean “wants to have sex with you.”

“You make me horny” doesn’t automatically mean “I’m horny for you.”

Life would be simpler if these things weren’t true.  But when has life ever been simple?