Coffee Thoughts



I believe that being a dominant in a D/s dynamic is about much more than giving affection and enforcing bedtimes. Make sure that there are plenty pads/tampons under the sink before her period starts. Buy her favorite, but expensive, shampoo and conditioner for her, so that she doesn’t have to stress over the cost, and she never runs out. The same goes for her makeup and skin care products. Take her shopping for bras and panties when you notice that her are getting worn out. Your job, as her dominant, is to make her life easier in her submission to you, not harder. If you truly take care of her, she will take care of you.


Care giving: because there’s more to giving a fuck than giving fucks.