Consensual non-consent is a thing.

confirmedmisogynist:

k1tt3n-x:

“I give my dominant permission to use my body even when I say no.”

DOES NOT EQUAL

“I support rapists.”

What some men don’t understand. 

Remember to separate fantasy from reality.

CNC is as categorically different from non-consent as “I’ll wrestle you for it” is from “your money or your life.”  One’s about erotic exertion and surrender, the other’s just survival.

Ok.  So it’s pretty fundamental.  CNC happens inside relationship boundaries!