Dicks are nice (I certainly enjoy mine!) but they’re perfect for caressing hard-to-reach places.  But since clits aren’t hard to reach…

If you or your partner is a woman it’s 100% ok to rely on something besides vaginal penetration for orgasms.  Your hands.  Their hands.  A toy.  A thigh.  A tongue.  Grinding against something.

(excerpted from a longer post)