Do you believe in cock worship?

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I mentioned to DD when I saw him last night that someone had asked this and I hadn’t had a chance to answer yet, and he just chuckled and raised his eyebrows. 

I have decided to translate that chuckle using my patented “Baby Girl Over-Interpreter of Daddy Noises” … so here’s what he actually meant: 

“She doesn’t just BELIEVE in cock worship, she attends the mid-week bible study, sings in the choir, helps clean the pews and tidies up the hall after coffee time!”

Ahh, I amuse myself. 

Real answer: I’m not sure if one can BELIEVE in cock worship. I’m not sure I had ever even heard the term this time two years ago. 

Do I worship Daddy’s cock? 

I love looking at it. 

I love touching it. 

I love tasting it. 

I love laying my head on his thigh or tummy and closing my eyes and just resting there. 

I love lazy sucking. 

I love deep throating it. 

I love gagging on it. 

I love licking just the very tip. 

I love making it hard. 

I love the noises he makes when I do things to it. 

I love when he cums, on me or in me, by virtue of what I do. 

I love telling him how much I enjoy it. 

I love that it feels loving and serving to do all these things to him. 

I love that it feels sexy and submissive to do all these things to him. 

I love that it’s something I do for him that he seems to think I’m good at. 

I love that he loves it so much. None of the preceding comments would be true if he didn’t love it, appreciate it, enjoy it.  

Is all that worship? I guess so. Sometimes I think the titles and protocol and “official-ese” of D/s gets a little bound up in the words. Someone could do all those things that I just listed but without any emotion or joy … is it still “worship?” I guess it would look that way by actions alone. 

But as in so many things, it’s not really what we do – it’s how we feel and more importantly how we make someone else feel – while we do it. 

If cock worship is JOYFULLY taking pleasure in Daddy’s pleasure, then yes, I guess I believe in it. 

This nicely illustrates a point a lot of internet (and even pre-internet!) guys don’t get.

Most women don’t like getting dick pics. Or seeing random dicks in general. And that leaves a lot of guys with the impression that women don’t like dicks, period.

Heh.

Most women actually live A dick. It’s just if they don’t know you they don’t love YOUR dick.

I’ve been saying this a lot lately in different ways but it’s always _relationship_ first. Then all the things you want start happening. Not the other way around.