Do you have any advice for a monogamous sub considering a poly dom?

subgirlygirl:

Personally, I would treat the situation exactly as I would the Ebola virus: I’d go nowhere near a country in which it was prevalent.

Kink relationships aren’t magic. They’re regular relationships that also involve kink.  So a good exercise in these situations is to restate the question without invoking kink: “Do you have any advice for a monogamous vanilla person considering a poly vanilla partner?”

If the answer is still yes (hey, sometimes the answer really is yes) then great.  Maybe being a monogamous Sub for a poly Dom will work for you.

Otherwise, what @subgirlygirl said!  Don’t even go there.