Do you think you deserved to have a sub so early? Did you make any mistakes?
I made all of the mistakes. And my sub, bless her, educated me while still keeping the power exchange framework intact. No easy feat.
This is so! Behind every great Dom there’s a great Sub. (And vice versa!) We learn from our partners.
Everyone makes all the mistakes when they’re starting out! Those of us who didn’t start with great mentors just spend many more years making them. Sometimes over and over.
← So I finally turned 18 last month after 7 years of sitting on the outlines and reading about BDSM instead of trying to join the community because I knew that even though I had the knowledge and want for said experiences I was WAY too young and would put people at risk including myself by involving myself AT ALL in the community but now that I’m 18 I’m too nervous to actually put myself out there, I’m scared people will still say I’m too young even though I’m an adult. What do I do? 1/2Next Post →