Ever since I started having sex, I haven’t been able to find someone willing to get me off. I’m clean. I shower. A light smell that all vaginas have is there, yeah, but nothing really strong. I shave. But all my past and current partners just want oral sex. I’m happy to give it! I’m a people pleaser at heart, I’m just getting really burnt out on the lack of reciprocity. When talking about my desires, they state vaginas are disgusting. This has been my sex life forever. What am I doing wrong?


“Vaginas are disgusting?? Jesus fucking Christ, how old are the boys you are fucking?? You need to start doing a LOT better job of vetting potential partners before you hop in the sack with them!!

Vetting process: 

  • I have a vagina, is that going to be a problem?
  • I expect my partner to get me off, is that going to be a problem?
  • If it’s a problem that I have a vagina and a problem that I want to get off then we’ve got a problem.