Grinding against someone’s thigh is a big Y E S
Big Y E S! I’m extraordinarily fond of letting someone grind against my thigh. So many ways to do it too, aren’t there?
← but the only thing that is non-negotiable is a d/s relationship is consent? That’s really it. That’s what seperates us from “vanilla” people. There is plenty of items that is non-negotiable for you, but that’s for you? I think you’re a great girl but maybe should try and be humble and not get on a soap box about items you have a personal bias on. You give suburb advice but it’s advice and your not laying down bdsm law? (prev wasn’t my anon question but I see what she’s getting at)I’m new to kink, like brand new I met this guy and he’s slowly introducing me to bdsm I’m a virgin so I’m afraid to do all the things I see on his Tumblr…. He hasn’t even mentioned intimacy yet he’s still “learning about me” How do I tell him I’m afraid without him thinking I’m not into him →