Hi. I’m 25 y.o. and I had my first time today. I love my boyfriend and we usually have an amazing time giving oral sex to each other, masturbating and making out, but I didn’t really enjoy having sex for the first time. I got a little bit hurt and I didn’t feel so good as I do when we do other sexual stuff. It wasn’t awful, but I was expecting a really romantic situation but it wasn’t like that. I’m sad. Is it too dumb?


From what I’ve heard, more often than not a girl’s first time can be like that. It’ll get better if he’s willing to put in the effort.

Intercourse is overhyped. Not saying it’s bad, just that it’s not as natural or easy or fulfilling or “ultimate” as everything in popular culture leads everyone to believe.