Hi smut mom, I masturbate frequently but I’m not sure if I’ve ever squirted. I know that sometimes after I orgasm I’m having to run to the restroom to clean up because it’s running down my legs, but I’m not sure if I squirted or I was just really wet. How would you tell if you squirted?
The best way of course would be with a partner, but when by yourself I would guess it would be perhaps by using a camera to tape your masturbating session. (just be sure not to be broadcasting live and be damn sure to erase after watching)
It’s not easy to tell if you’ve squirted or not for some. Sometimes it’s just a very small amount in a tiny little squirt that if you’re not paying attention (and most time when you’re working yourself like that, you’re not) you miss it. Other times it can be a big stream that wets the bed or what ever surface that is underneath you and you’re thinking goddamn I could fill a swimming pool!
I never really been a squirter, I can count the times I’ve done it on one hand, but before I had my hysterectomy I was a very…well creamy woman lets say… and when I had an orgasm I would have juice all over my thighs, running down to my ass and hell, by the time I got to the bathroom it would be on my calves even.
That’s without squirting!!!
So if squirting is something you want to work on look up g-spot stimulation. Try to find educational videos or websites instead of porn to help you. There use to be lots of books on the subject of g-spot stimulation so also try that if you like at a bookstore or amazon… (I keep forgetting about amazon because I still love bookstores!)
Don’t put to much pressure on yourself about squirting. As long as you can have an orgasm through other stimulation then you are doing fantastic.
Good luck, honey.
Most of the women I’ve been with who had g-spot orgasms said they were about the same. Definitely not the holy grail they make it sound like in porn. The authors of the original “The G-Spot” book even had a whole chapter titled Don’t Searching For the Best Drive Out the Good! Rare doesn’t equal better.
Good indication: Several who squirted when they came preferred not to come at all because they didn’t like having to change the bedding every time.
Not saying don’t bother trying. Not at all! But don’t feel like you’re missing something just because you don’t.
And dear god please don’t take any shit from partners who want you to or think you should be able to!
