I asked about pussy sewing because I saw a video of it and a large group of people in the comments who were talking how its the only way for a slave to completely submit to a master and how slaves who refuse do it are fake, and few that said pussy sewing should be done to every female, so I got very confused and disgusted by it. And no, I am definitely not for it, I almost throw up when I saw it.

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I have the same reaction if I see it.

Jesus! Who makes this shit up?  There’s not even a rule that a Slave has to call their partner “Master!”  So who the actual fuck thinks needles and thread are necessary?

No need to guess where this idea comes from, by the way.  Of course there would be a video!  This is what happens when newbies get all their information from “BDSM” sites like Kink.com that cater mainly to knee-squeezingly anxious rubberneckers, incels, and other hetero-anxious misogynists.

Yeah.  I’m sure there are videos.  And yes, I’m sure they’re enormously popular among the Johnny Knoxville crowd.  But no, that’s not the only way to “completely submit” to a master, no, a Slave who won’t put up with that shit isn’t “fake.”  And no, don’t confuse porn with sex education!

Honestly, kids, I’ve heard some stupid ideas about sex in my too-long life, but this is literally and figuratively the stupidest thing I’ve ever, ever, ever heard!

Ahahah!  Pussy sewing as the only way?  Ahahahahah!  What a bunch of Grade-A newbie trolls!

And fuck all those assholes at Kink.com and their wannabe knockoffs.


Update – Here’s the bottom line about being any kind of bottom in kink: it’s got to be for your erotic or sexual satisfaction.  Sadomasochism and Master/Slave can be a little tricky since sometimes bottoms really don’t enjoy themselves during their sessions… but make themselves come over and over and over while anticipating or reliving their experiences.  So in that sense they’re still getting satisfaction from their experience.

So if the idea of having your pussy sewn shut by your Master floats your boat?  Awesome!  (Though good luck finding an experienced, non-fake Master willing to do it.)  On the other hand if (like almost all Subs, Masochists, and Slaves and like almost all Doms, Sadists, and Masters) the very idea leaves you dead cold?  Then that would be show-stopping boundary #1, wouldn’t it?

This is something you won’t get from bullshit “BDSM” porn – you have to want to do it.  And you have to feel gratified and satisfied when you do.  Otherwise it’s not kink, it’s abuse and/or codependence.  Those are not the same things.