redsatinsheets:

idk if men know this but

if you have to beg a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual. if you make a girl feel bad for not wanting to have sex with you to the point where she says yes, it’s not consensual. if you have to trick a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual.

This is what people mean when they talk about “enthusiastic consent!”

In addition to, um, stronger feelings I genuinely feel sorry for the folks who’s only experience of “consent” has been a grudging “I guess so.”

Sympathy does not equal tolerance.

But all the folks out there who imagine that’s as good as it can possibly get? Doesn’t matter how often you can “get some” that way. Because Jesus that’s pathetic!