If a submissive wishes to provide her Dominant counterpart with a “guide to Dom-ing her” is that considered topping from the bottom and disrespectful?


That’s what foundational discussions at the beginning and meta talks ongoing are for.

Perfect!  Don’t assume your Dom or Daddy has all the experience they need.  For that matter, even if they’re experienced Doms or Daddies they still aren’t experienced with you!  Don’t let him make that assumption either.

Experienced or not that doesn’t mean he has to follow your scripts for D/S.  (Ahahah, yeah, that really would be topping from the bottom!  Those rules about assumptions apply to Subs as well as Doms!)