If your sub blatantly expressed her desire to jump your bones, would you let her, or is that not being demurely subby?

instructor144:

In the scenario you describe, as long as she used her good girl manners – “With respect, Master, may this slave have permission to fuck your brains out??” – I’m thinking a “Permission granted” is pretty much guaranteed. ;) There is no more intoxicating feeling than realizing that that special person feels unabashed, down ‘n dirty, grabby-hands lust for you.

Being a Daddy and all, the fact that Littles get to enthusiastically jump your bones is one of the distinctly charming things about D/Lg.  Enthusiasm is contagious, at at least for this (non-Dom) Daddy I’m only going to intervene with “Daddy rules” when I think someone’s at risk.  (At risk of self harm, at risk of not meeting objectives they’ve set for themselves, at risk of procrastinating something that’s actually important at the moment, etc.)

I can see how a Sub exercising initiative could be problematic in a more formal D/S dynamic.

But as the man says, “There is no more intoxicating feeling than realizing that that special person feels unabashed, down ‘n dirty, grabby-hands lust for you.“

No, there’s really not!