If you’re trying to play a ‘role’ long-term, it won’t be sustainable – or authentic. You can only be – and enhance – who you already are.


Role play and sexual phases are one thing, your natural tendancies will always be there…


And not to put too fine a point on it, even when you wholly invest in something long-term you may find yourself outgrowing it.

That’s not a good reason not to explore or try. Sometimes it’s the only way to get something out of your system. Sometimes it’s the only way to find out what you’re really looking for.