In light of all the discourse tonight— has Norasaurus ever had to use her safeword?

dinodaddy:

Hi Anon!

Not yet. We haven’t yet taken things to the point where that’s likely to happen, but she knows that I would not only be totally okay with her using it, but that I’d be proud of her for doing so.

Great answer. Perhaps there are non-sociopath sadists who’s only goal is to keep amping the intensity till they have to carry their lover out wrapped in plastic, and only their safeword will save their life. But…

Meanwhile here in the real world we don’t want to redline our car engines, melt our house wiring, or hospitalize our partners.

So, yeah. Safewords are like engine lights. Long term D/S or S&M partners aren’t going to need to use them very often.