Is it possible to engage in a ddlg relationship that doesn’t involve really rough play? I’m fine with manhandling, but choking/slapping and the like is a hard limit for me. Anytime I see ddlg-related content, there’s a lot of that, and I worry I won’t be able find someone who is satisfied without it. I want to submit to someone and be good for them, but I also know my limits. Any advice for someone new to the lifestyle?

Yes! It’s very possible! Rough play is great if it turns you on. But!!! It’s not the essence of D/Lg at all, at all!

DD/Lg is often characterized as being a subset of D/S. But simple D/Lg isn’t. Being Daddy isn’t the same as being a Dom.