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“My kink must be intense 24/7” ≠ “kink must be intense 24/7”
Be happy for other folks kinks, even if they’re not as “good” as yours.
While we’re at it, don’t mistake vanilla personality traits that satisfy someone else (eg a place for everything and everything in its place, climb every mountain ford every stream) with what you should find satisfying.
This goes both ways in the wonderful comic, you know. The cuties on the right gotta respect the preference of the “stress bucket” in blue as much as blue boy needs to respect the preferences of the “slackers” on the right.