Question
Would dommes think less of their boy/sub if they cried after really good sex? Asking for a friend…
Not at all. Sub drop is a thing. Huh them and tell them they did wonderful. Make sure that everything is fine. Ask if there’s something that you could be doing better. Get them some water and tissues and just hold them.
I’m not a real Dom but I’ve topped quite a few submissives and I’ll just say that if your Sub has a nice cathartic cry after sex then you’ve been doing a good job. And so have they. Nicely done!
I’ll just add that your job as a top isn’t done till the tears stop.
Don’t forget: “aftercare” isn’t something you do after sex – it’s still sex!
