Reading your thing on when a dom should shut down a scene, and other things where you’re too conservative and play it too safe! RACK is the way to go! Are you this afraid of risk because you’re old? If so getting old sucks.

instructor144:

Hey there, welcome to my blog. Love the sunglasses. I come by my conservatism honestly. Let me tell you a little story ….

QUEENS GIRL’S DEATH REVEALS THE SEAMY UNDERBELLY OF NYC BDSM SCENE

A friend mailed me this headline from the NY Daily News a few months after I moved from NYC to Philly. The guy (age 21, same age as I was then) stated he “got carried away.” The girl (age 20) turned out to have an underlying heart condition that caused her death in the heat of the scene.

The guy was someone I’d known from the clubs, a nodding acquaintance. The girl was an ex.

Now why don’t you shut your fucking mouth and take a seat, son.

The problem with YOLO and Doms is it’s not you who’s only gonna live once if you aren’t being fucking responsible.

You ain’t feeling responsible you ain’t a Dom.  You’re not even a goddamn wannabe Dom.  Dom = taking fucking responsibility.  Dom space = zoning in on the goddamn responsibility, not zoning out on it.

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