Stop worrying.


Stop worrying about not being strong, or being too strong. About being too needy or too independent. All of that is just noise inside your head. Acknowledge it, and then let it pass through.

Your submission is part of your femininity and it is hard wired in your brain and body. You need his guidance, his reassurance, his discipline, his control. It’s how you are built.

There’s no use fighting it.

Case in point: Stop worrying?  Genuinely great, broadly applicable advice in the first paragraph.  Don’t question?  Grossly overgeneralized personal opinion in the second.

Hint: like the majority of your demographic you might not, in fact, be “hard wired” for any such thing.  No use fighting that either.