By Thomas Oldenough | December 3, 2019 | Comments Off on đ Back with another cockwarming (ish) question. Can someone cockwarm with their mouth? Or is that something different? And thank you for answering my previous question.
What a sweet question! And youâre welcome about my last answer too.
Readers may remember that cock warming (as defined by Urban Dictionary, for instance, means…
cock warming The act of a man slipping his erection into his partner’s vagina or ass in order to keep warm – a more intimate version of spooning. eg. “Jake held Jenny close for a bit of cock warming before they fell asleep.”
You may also remember the nerdy tidbit that it seems to be popular with fans (and fanfic writers) of Korean K-pop.
If you ask me Iâm going to say that while one can cock-warm someone with their mouth I prefer the term cock nursing. As in…
âMeanwhile, under his desk Jenny softly cock nursed Jake while he did important Daddy spreadsheet things on his computer.â
Thanks for asking! Let me know whether you think cock nursing is different from cockwarming. (I think either way itâs a wonderful feeling.)
Comments Off on đ Back with another cockwarming (ish) question. Can someone cockwarm with their mouth? Or is that something different? And thank you for answering my previous question.
i want a partner who would let me suck on their dick/toy lazily just because i want something in my mouth at the moment. playing a game? gimme please, i wonât be in your way. reading? iâll look awful cute by your lamp light just beyond the edge of your page. lounging in bed? your tummy is soft to lay my head on so you can play with my hair and doze while youâre in my mouth. itâs a win-win, truly.
This is so me, isnât it Sir?
When I was a young man blowjobs were Just Not Done. It wasnât just that âproper ladiesâ did no such thing. (At least in the English speaking world.) Itâs that men who wanted blowjobs were suspected âlatent homosexuality!â
Thereâs a pretty wild police report from Australia in the 1960s, not only did a gang of women sex workers beat up other sex workers whoâd agree to give blowjobs, another group beat up a customer who asked for one!
Oddly, going down on women didnât have that stigma either for women who received it or men who gave. Which is awesome because I adore going down on my partners. It was one of my earliest sex fantasies. I daydream about it often. And while boundaries are still boundaries, Iâm always profoundly disappointed when a partner doesnât want me to go down on her.
And if IÂ enjoy going down on you then it shouldnât be a surprise if you, like @agenderkitten, would be as into going down on me.Â
Yeah, it can be hot and heavy. But itâs also lovely when itâs slow, lazy, and as much for comfort as coming.
Tumblr wouldnât let us post photos of you gently mouthing and sucking my cock till was pulsing back against the heavy pressure of your swirling tongue, my hands on the bed on either side to hold me up as my knees buckled, sticky salty drops weeping into your throat.
But if we posted photos of you sucking my thumb instead? Well, puppy, that would be a lovely way to start, wouldnât it?
I canât imagine being able to hold a camera steady anyway. Nor hold a candle to you.
Finally! Â Somebody who understands that Iâm going to enjoy lying with my head on your inner thigh, lazily nuzzling and licking your clit under its little hood for the same reason youâd enjoy lying with your head on my tummy idly mouthing my cock. Â I mean, itâs nice if I start to grow hard in your mouth, or you start to get wriggly. Â But even when weâre not being sexual it still feels good, doesnât it? Â
The fun thing about D/Lg or pet play vs regular sex is getting to take perfectly ordinary situations and add…
âWant to play feeding time for baby goats at the petting zoo, kittywampus?â
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Note:Â I donât think the algorithms balk at drawings? Â Anyone know? Â I do like posting actual sexual situations but donât at all want to end up getting filtered.
Just so you know, this is a very, very lovely way to do this. Nobodyâs on top. Nobody had to be in a hurry. Just sweet nuzzling and kissing till… one or the other of us completely loses the plot.
girls laying their head on your lap and lazily playing with your dick
This! It feels heavenly, you know.
Which reminds me: back on my old, old pre-Tumblr, pre-phone-camera blog I posted a series of dick pics. I did! It was a pretty established sex-and-society blog at that point, and Iâd announced in advance that Iâd be doing it.
It was pretty successful. Got reposted all over the place.
It was a bunch of photos of me in bed, bright sun coming in the windows, with surprisingly nice focus and framing and depth of field and that was all well and good but what got the most attention was…
I wasnât even a little bit hard. Nope, just kind of all loose and floppy! And, evidently, cute and cuddly.
Over the years I did post a couple where I was erect. Most got at best polite applause.
A lot of guys grow up thinking we have to take charge for sex to happen. We think anything to do with our dicks is sex. Weâre even a little conditioned to be surprised when weâre not horny but our partners are interested. Â
And weâre somehow convinced the only possible way women could be interested in us is if weâre already hard. So thatâs the kind of dick pics everybody sends.
Heh.
Just going out on a limb here but Iâm going to say a hallmark of an older, experienced Daddy is he understands his LIttleâs going to enjoy lazily playing or nursing him when heâs not hard as when he is. Doms and Subs, I donât know about, but Littles who regress, and Littles at heart, are interested in their sweeties even when theyâre not horny… and neither are you. Well. At first.
And if they manage to tease you hard in their hands our mouth? Itâs kind of awesomely erotic when a Little says âDaddy, look what I madeâ half-lidded eyes and a mad grin.
Morning wood is usually just super inconvenient because sometimes you really gotta pee and youâre pointing straight up!!! But I get that not everyone sees it the same way.
Itâs actually kind of a heavenly way to encourage a sleepy Daddy to wake up, slippery elf.
