reverieparisienne:

RÊVERIE PARISIENNE

Study habits…

funnymemes-and-kinkydreams:

Close your eyes and imagine an older, experienced gentleman’s strong, knowing hands touching you while we make out.  Imagine feeling his forearm moving warmly against your belly as his hand slips under your waistband and his fingertips draw slippery circles over your tenderest places.  Imagine his lips against yours, taking in his scent each time you inhale, his free arm around you pulling you close.  Remember how it feels when his fingertips have found exactly the right spot… that feeling where it’s so perfect you want to groan out loud but he’s kissing so perfectly you’d want to cry if you weren’t about to come in mid kiss…

I can’t say making you moan and struggle to keep kissing me back is why I’ll finger you while we make out, guppy.  But when you do it’s just perfect!

You got me, fuzzybug. I got you too.

Because D/Lg isn’t all about “my good girl” or spankings or cocknursing.  D/Lg is about whole relationships.  And while Daddies always care for their Littles when they need it, it’s ok for Littles to be there when their Daddies need them too, isn’t it, soapdish?

Being just that little bit handsy feels soooo nice….

Being just that little bit handsy feels sooo nice, doesn’t it, sparkplug?  For both of us!

tn-redhead:

You choose the book, please

Another awesome first-date daydream!  Wouldn’t have to be a sexy date, and it would be fine if my date wore more than panties, since an older, experienced gentleman never minds waiting till the third date to kiss.  

But!

Spending an evening in a big overstuffed armchair with you in my lap while I read stories out loud?  That would be kind of a seriously amazing way to get to know each other!

Hello, I would like to cuddle with you forever please and thank you ☺????

We might need to get up occasionally for coffee and treats and trips to the bathroom or kitchen.  And I might need to get up for the occasional warm, wet washcloth to clean up the occasional drippy mess.

But cuddling forever, especially on lazy weekend mornings but really almost any time?  I’m sure that would be very nice!  Thank you!

Its okay for you just a cuddling night?! Nothing sexual?!

nagual-illaine:

primalgentleman:

daddyandhislittleprincess11102:

instructor144:

Sure, straight cuddles and snuggles have their place.

Absolutely! Just cuddle, relax and recharge! I think I require this more even than Princess does.

Daddy

Why would a straight up cuddle night be off the table? Gimme the cuddles dammit! I’ll even make popcorn!

Cuddle????my????ass????to????death????!

OMG.  Cuddling’s great!  When I was about 20 or so I took a break from being massively promiscuous and spent a year doing casual hookups for no-sex sleeping.  It was awesome!  

I was pretty homeless back then, hitch-hiking around the country doing the whole wandering wastrel / starving hippie bit with long hair and a guitar on my back.  And I’d come to a realization that one of the reasons i was staying so busy hooking up was that if you had sex with someone, at least back then, you’d sleep together for the rest of the night.  And I found that there was a huge difference between the times when I’d sex but not spend the night and the times I’d spend the night but not have sex.

So even then I was a big fan of having sex because you want to have sex and not for other reasons (love, money, peer pressure, power-tripping, etc.)  And once I made that cuddling vs sex distinction, well, like I said I spent a year just “hooking up” for sleep.  I was always honest about it.  And to be honest most of the women I hooked up with were somewhere between intrigued, skeptical, and/or enthusiastic about trying it.

I went back to being my usual promiscuous self after that.  Only a year older but so much wiser!

It’s always good to know why you’re having sex.

Sex is wonderful!   But so’s cuddling!