One of the nicest things about D/Lg is that it’s 100% natural and normal for a Little to take the initiative to cheer up or comfort their Daddy, in a way that might not seem appropriate in a more pure DD/Lg or D/S relationship.

Just like it’s 100% natural for a Daddy to try and cheer up a mopey Little!

I’d just like to add that this is one of those places where it’s totally fucking wonderful that in age-play relationships everyone’s an actual adult.  Because adults are developmentally able to understand that it’s not their fault when a grownup is upset, angry, or sad.  

Actual children have a very hard time with this… which is just one of the 118,000 reasons why adults and minors having romantic relationships, let alone sexual ones, is a bad idea and not just illegal, unethical, stupid, and wrong.

You’ve heard of orgasm denial, I’m sure. And forced orgasms too (though tbh I’m not sure how many people really say “no, don’t give me an orgasm!”)

But me? I’m into consensual orgasms. I’m declaring it part of consensual Domination, which I’m starting to adore.

“If you agree to come to my office with me I’m going to kiss you passionately in the elevator, manhandle you while I open the door, bend you over my desk, reach between your legs, and rub your little button until you come.

Would you like me to do that to you?

Good girl!”

oh-perverso:

It’s little things like when I take my belt off while just changing pants and I turn around and there you are all bent over.

When folks get that Masochism and Submission are their own, independent kinks it’s a lot harder to mistake D/S or S&M for abuse.

Because it’s not always about consent, is it? No, consent is just the bare minimum requirement. An older, experienced gentleman waits till he knows you’re hungry for it. Because only a total toolbag would do it if you weren’t.

yoursubmissive46:

Need…

fuck-me–with-your–tongue-deac:

You just call out my name /and you know wherever I am / I’ll come running / to see you again. — Carol King

Seriously, stickepuff, when you need me I’ll come running to help you go where you want to be.

An older, experienced top understands and respects that Submission is your own, independent, autonomous kink.

Nice reminder that being “Little” isn’t the same as “prepubescent.”  Nor is being attracted to Littles the same as being attracted to actual children.

Sometimes it’s just about grown-ass men and women not buying into cliche notions of what counts as “sexy” or revealing outfits.

In case anyone wasn’t 100% sure already.