thefetishist6:

Because there are all kinds of ways to do pet play, aren’t there, shrimpsauce?  Sometimes it’s about cute kittens or grovelly little puppies.  But sometimes it’s about Daddy needing to tame his hungry, hungry lion too, isn’t it?

taint3edcakes:

Sometimes I don’t think men realize how important intimacy is before sex. Yeah like I know we are gonna fuck. But sometimes I wanna lay with you and make out and just have you touch me all over and slip a hand between my legs for a while so that after its all over I can think of the way your hands scorched across my skin. I wont ever forget.

Wait. Seriously? Pretty sure even when I was a callow, pimply-faced youth I still had sense (and sensuality… and self-respect!!!) enough to want to take my time, enjoy goddamn *sex* and not just a quick little jackrabbitery before doing… what? What else could you possibly want to do if you’ve got a warm, wonderful, naked woman next to you?

Honestly. Guys worry so much about “premature ejaculation,” and maybe they’re ashamed of themselves? Maybe they think “two-pump chimp” is a *complement?*. But fact is that stories about “blue balls” notwithstanding, the benefit of “foreplay,”. (It’s really sex) for men is it takes us longer to come, just like it help our partners take less time to come.

And puhlease don’t tell me that spending an hour kissing and being kissed, touching and being touched, holding someone and being held, licking someone and being licked, doesn’t add up to some *supreme* sexual pleasures of their own, even before you get to intercourse!

Bottom line: foreplay isn’t “fore” anything. It’s already sex!

“A hobble (also, and perhaps earlier, hopple) or spancel is a device which prevents or limits the locomotion of a [Sub or Pet], by tethering one or more legs. Although hobbles are most commonly used on horses, they are also sometimes used on other [Subs or Pets].”

Taking you out for dinner…

bite-the-brat:

Not to be a bottom but i Love being used as a toy…im always down to reciprocate of course but when dudes just wanna pound u and bite u and call u pretty names and pin u down while u just take it…thats my favourite thing

I wouldn’t be a top if this didn’t make me Feel All The Things, would I?

There’s nothing wrong with Subs who want their Doms to give them rules and tasks… but I’m a Daddy, not a Dom.  And while it’s delightful holding you accountable for goals you set for yourself, I seriously enjoy saying “Let Daddy do that, cheez-it, you’re too smol.”

Sigh!