thinking about making a girl cum without even fully undressing her is. quite fucking hot because like? slipping your hand under her panties? pushing them aside to fuck her?? taking off her panties but leaving her skirt or her dress on to fuck her??? or god even having her naked from the waist down but shes still wearing your shirt or your hoodie when she cums. fuck
This is just one of the reasons I think making out for hours on the couch can be so hot. Giving someone her first orgasm just from grinding through clothes, without so much as undoing a single button or zipper? What’s not to like about that?
Sometimes I don’t think men realize how important intimacy is before sex. Yeah like I know we are gonna fuck. But sometimes I wanna lay with you and make out and just have you touch me all over and slip a hand between my legs for a while so that after its all over I can think of the way your hands scorched across my skin. I wont ever forget.
Wait. Seriously? Pretty sure even when I was a callow, pimply-faced youth I still had sense (and sensuality… and self-respect!!!) enough to want to take my time, enjoy goddamn *sex* and not just a quick little jackrabbitery before doing… what? What else could you possibly want to do if you’ve got a warm, wonderful, naked woman next to you?
Honestly. Guys worry so much about “premature ejaculation,” and maybe they’re ashamed of themselves? Maybe they think “two-pump chimp” is a *complement?*. But fact is that stories about “blue balls” notwithstanding, the benefit of “foreplay,”. (It’s really sex) for men is it takes us longer to come, just like it help our partners take less time to come.
And puhlease don’t tell me that spending an hour kissing and being kissed, touching and being touched, holding someone and being held, licking someone and being licked, doesn’t add up to some *supreme* sexual pleasures of their own, even before you get to intercourse!
I’ve been down with a bit of a cold for the last few days. Been spending a little too much time napping and not nearly enough time paying attention to you, kittycat.
