generalgrievousdatingsim:

since when did THIS

become sexier than THIS?

generalgrievousdatingsim:

fucked up that we don’t make belts with loops for holding blades or pouches for storing coins and dried herbs anymore

Hmm.  Why would anybody think a plain old belt was sexier than one with built-in pouches and pockets and sheathes and holsters with auxiliary thigh straps, cuddlebug?  I mean, all a D/Lg Daddy can do with a regular belt is double it in his big strong hand…  😏

(Don’t get me wrong!  As a former professional journeyman leatherworker those other kinds of belts are so much fun to make, and they really are good for carrying swords or hammers or coins or dried herbs!  But take it from an expert: plain old Daddy belts are just soo much better for spanking naughty Little elves and minxes, aren’t they?)

Notice how carefully and almost gently he’s spanking her?  Also notice how he’s already warmed her up?  Surprised?  Please don’t be.  That’s the way you do it!

Folks who don’t understand kink imagine spanking is always aggressive, punitive, and hard as possible – you know, the way angry parents, teachers, and frat boys do it.

But really, while yes you’ll find capital-M Masochists who genuinely thrive on serious pain, for almost everyone else the key isn’t how hard you’re spanked but how well.

I mean, look.  It’s like pretty much everything else in sex, right?  Yes, you can just jam an object inside someone without warming them up, or start jacking a guy with no warmup, or stick your tongue down someone’s throat on the first kiss.  And yes, you can find people who like that too!

But most people don’t. And therefore, kinksters being people and all, most kinksters don’t care much for it either.

I’m always saying “don’t do it the way they do it in porn.”  Let me just add “don’t do it the way angry parents, teachers, and frat boys do it either.”

50shades-of-impregnation:

Anybody need yo be bent over and spanked no harder than this? Cause an older, experienced gentleman knows what makes your heart race and your knees weak and your panties wet isn’t how hard you’re spanked, but how well…

Lot of unnecessary myths get taken down in this image but two important ones are

  • The effectiveness of spanking isn’t always measured by how hard it is
  • It’s inherently submissive to be on the bottom

Heh.  We know better, don’t we, tumblebun?

Because an older, experienced gentleman understands how important head and neck support is during a proper spanking, doesn’t he?

Anyone…

Anyone feel like an older gentleman’s hand would feel really good right about now, pressing between your shoulders with just enough authority that you know you couldn’t rise, even if you wanted to, while his other hand roughly yanked your skirt or shorts or pjs or tights down around your knees and spanked you… not hard but solid and thudding… till your panties were soaked and then slipping them down and fingering you gently but relentlessly till you shivered? And sighed. And came. Again?

My hands.

My mood.

You.

Here.

Now!

An older, experienced gentleman knows a firm grip on a new collar and gentle, rhythmic swats on the rump can help reassure an anxious puppy…

findmethroughthegrey:

*slingshots my panties at you to let you know you can get it*

Technically this counts as “naughty,” but really it’s adorable. Technically it would “earn you a spanking,” but really of course you already can have a spanking, shuttlebug, any time you want one!