“Social grooming by licking is an important affectionate behavior in cats, and licking can be a sign of affection between cats and between a cat and a human”
Technically nobody deserves a blowjob. It’s literally not a job! Instead it’s a gift. In both senses, meaning not just something given but something one has more or less of an aptitude and affinity for.
But!
Just because they’re neither earned nor purchased nor an entitlement, who wants to either give a gift or apply ones gifts to a… selfish toolbag?
Go down on your sweetly because you like them and want them to feel good. Do it because it makes you happy.
Meanwhile as a hungry Daddy I’m sort of the opposite. Getting blowjobs makes me happy because I know I’ll get to go down on you next.
Sometimes I don’t think men realize how important intimacy is before sex. Yeah like I know we are gonna fuck. But sometimes I wanna lay with you and make out and just have you touch me all over and slip a hand between my legs for a while so that after its all over I can think of the way your hands scorched across my skin. I wont ever forget.
Wait. Seriously? Pretty sure even when I was a callow, pimply-faced youth I still had sense (and sensuality… and self-respect!!!) enough to want to take my time, enjoy goddamn *sex* and not just a quick little jackrabbitery before doing… what? What else could you possibly want to do if you’ve got a warm, wonderful, naked woman next to you?
Honestly. Guys worry so much about “premature ejaculation,” and maybe they’re ashamed of themselves? Maybe they think “two-pump chimp” is a *complement?*. But fact is that stories about “blue balls” notwithstanding, the benefit of “foreplay,”. (It’s really sex) for men is it takes us longer to come, just like it help our partners take less time to come.
And puhlease don’t tell me that spending an hour kissing and being kissed, touching and being touched, holding someone and being held, licking someone and being licked, doesn’t add up to some *supreme* sexual pleasures of their own, even before you get to intercourse!
i want a partner who would let me suck on their dick/toy lazily just because i want something in my mouth at the moment. playing a game? gimme please, i won’t be in your way. reading? i’ll look awful cute by your lamp light just beyond the edge of your page. lounging in bed? your tummy is soft to lay my head on so you can play with my hair and doze while you’re in my mouth. it’s a win-win, truly.
This is so me, isn’t it Sir?
When I was a young man blowjobs were Just Not Done. It wasn’t just that “proper ladies” did no such thing. (At least in the English speaking world.) It’s that men who wanted blowjobs were suspected “latent homosexuality!”
There’s a pretty wild police report from Australia in the 1960s, not only did a gang of women sex workers beat up other sex workers who’d agree to give blowjobs, another group beat up a customer who asked for one!
Oddly, going down on women didn’t have that stigma either for women who received it or men who gave. Which is awesome because I adore going down on my partners. It was one of my earliest sex fantasies. I daydream about it often. And while boundaries are still boundaries, I’m always profoundly disappointed when a partner doesn’t want me to go down on her.
And if I enjoy going down on you then it shouldn’t be a surprise if you, like @agenderkitten, would be as into going down on me.
Yeah, it can be hot and heavy. But it’s also lovely when it’s slow, lazy, and as much for comfort as coming.
The trick to 69 is taking turns, not trying to have “simultaneous orgasm so.” The trick is it’s just so much more intimate. The trick is it just feels and tastes and looks and feels and feels and feels wonderful!
Just so you know, this is a very, very lovely way to do this. Nobody’s on top. Nobody had to be in a hurry. Just sweet nuzzling and kissing till… one or the other of us completely loses the plot.
By Thomas Oldenough | June 23, 2019 | Comments Off on The underlying truth is “this feels wonderful, thank you so much.”
Wish there was a way to let you know how it feels when you do this. How impossibly good it feels when you do this!
No matter how gentle or rough we play, and no matter what harsh or tender words we use, the underlying truth is “this feels wonderful, thank you so much.”
Morning wood is usually just super inconvenient because sometimes you really gotta pee and you’re pointing straight up!!! But I get that not everyone sees it the same way.
It’s actually kind of a heavenly way to encourage a sleepy Daddy to wake up, slippery elf.
I love this so much! A lot of the time when you see “69″ in porn it’s either one or the other on top. But really this is a lot more comfortable, cosy, and even intimate, isn’t it? Lying with your head on my inner thigh and mine on yours. Nobody “in charge,” and, really, nobody in a hurry or feeling obliged to perform. Just enjoying each other and feeling enjoyed is just… pretty wonderful!
Perfect thing to do on a lazy Saturday evening or Sunday afternoon, huh, cricket?
