Feeling aggressively, carnivorously hungry for you this morning, eyedrop. Daddy needs more than a little taste of you. Gonna be like the big bad wolf and eat you alllllll up…
Clits are always sooo cute. I mean what’s not to like?!?? They’re pretty. They feel wonderful under my fingertips. They feel lovely against my tongue. You make quite little squirmy moves and squeaky noises when I do those things. So again, what’s not to like?
Technically nobody deserves a blowjob. It’s literally not a job! Instead it’s a gift. In both senses, meaning not just something given but something one has more or less of an aptitude and affinity for.
But!
Just because they’re neither earned nor purchased nor an entitlement, who wants to either give a gift or apply ones gifts to a… selfish toolbag?
Go down on your sweetly because you like them and want them to feel good. Do it because it makes you happy.
Meanwhile as a hungry Daddy I’m sort of the opposite. Getting blowjobs makes me happy because I know I’ll get to go down on you next.
Write to me if you like what I make. I love to get feedback or make something for you. I’m always willing to listen to ideas or get creative for you in different ways.
Sometimes I don’t think men realize how important intimacy is before sex. Yeah like I know we are gonna fuck. But sometimes I wanna lay with you and make out and just have you touch me all over and slip a hand between my legs for a while so that after its all over I can think of the way your hands scorched across my skin. I wont ever forget.
Wait. Seriously? Pretty sure even when I was a callow, pimply-faced youth I still had sense (and sensuality… and self-respect!!!) enough to want to take my time, enjoy goddamn *sex* and not just a quick little jackrabbitery before doing… what? What else could you possibly want to do if you’ve got a warm, wonderful, naked woman next to you?
Honestly. Guys worry so much about “premature ejaculation,” and maybe they’re ashamed of themselves? Maybe they think “two-pump chimp” is a *complement?*. But fact is that stories about “blue balls” notwithstanding, the benefit of “foreplay,”. (It’s really sex) for men is it takes us longer to come, just like it help our partners take less time to come.
And puhlease don’t tell me that spending an hour kissing and being kissed, touching and being touched, holding someone and being held, licking someone and being licked, doesn’t add up to some *supreme* sexual pleasures of their own, even before you get to intercourse!
Feel sorry for all the folks who think it’s “submissive” to go down on your girl. Yeah, and she’s sure being the boss of him, isn’t she, cheesepuff? Ahahahah!
i want a partner who would let me suck on their dick/toy lazily just because i want something in my mouth at the moment. playing a game? gimme please, i won’t be in your way. reading? i’ll look awful cute by your lamp light just beyond the edge of your page. lounging in bed? your tummy is soft to lay my head on so you can play with my hair and doze while you’re in my mouth. it’s a win-win, truly.
This is so me, isn’t it Sir?
When I was a young man blowjobs were Just Not Done. It wasn’t just that “proper ladies” did no such thing. (At least in the English speaking world.) It’s that men who wanted blowjobs were suspected “latent homosexuality!”
There’s a pretty wild police report from Australia in the 1960s, not only did a gang of women sex workers beat up other sex workers who’d agree to give blowjobs, another group beat up a customer who asked for one!
Oddly, going down on women didn’t have that stigma either for women who received it or men who gave. Which is awesome because I adore going down on my partners. It was one of my earliest sex fantasies. I daydream about it often. And while boundaries are still boundaries, I’m always profoundly disappointed when a partner doesn’t want me to go down on her.
And if I enjoy going down on you then it shouldn’t be a surprise if you, like @agenderkitten, would be as into going down on me.
Yeah, it can be hot and heavy. But it’s also lovely when it’s slow, lazy, and as much for comfort as coming.
Honestly the biggest reason I never got that into computer games is because, just as honestly, there’s no game that’s either as rewarding, as pleasurable, or as genuinely, deeply interesting as playing with a living, responsive, and continually surprising and complex human partner.
Also, with partners when you “win a game” by making her come she’ll want a turn playing with you!
The trick to 69 is taking turns, not trying to have “simultaneous orgasm so.” The trick is it’s just so much more intimate. The trick is it just feels and tastes and looks and feels and feels and feels wonderful!
