I’m not going to knock those with an orgasm-denial kink.  I get the vague impression it’s sort of like leaving ice cream in the freezer because you’ll enjoy the anticipation.  But I’m never going to understand it either because for me not giving a partner orgasms feels about like not playing my guitar.  I wouldn’t know what to do with my hands! 

I’d rather have you say “please, no more!” 😂

You’ve heard of orgasm denial, I’m sure. And forced orgasms too (though tbh I’m not sure how many people really say “no, don’t give me an orgasm!”)

But me? I’m into consensual orgasms. I’m declaring it part of consensual Domination, which I’m starting to adore.

“If you agree to come to my office with me I’m going to kiss you passionately in the elevator, manhandle you while I open the door, bend you over my desk, reach between your legs, and rub your little button until you come.

Would you like me to do that to you?

Good girl!”

wittlebittykittykat:

Current Fantasy

To take a bath with my dom and have them slowly and careful wash me making sure not to touch any of my private parts (other than an ‘accidental’ brush) then start to finger me under the guise of cleaning me then getting angry at me for cumming and getting all dirty again and spanking me for being so messy

Funny, I’ve got a fantasy that’s almost exactly like this. Who wants to join me for some good clean fun?

somesexdreams:

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