The Importance of an Unsafe Word
Was walking back from the corner store. (I don’t eat a lot of sweets but mmmm frozen dark cherries!)
And I want thinking about topping and the importance of safewords.
You know how a bottom’s safewords mean stop? I was thinking an unsafeword would be a good way for a top to say “The bad thing I’m about to do is a top move. Choose now.”
No. I don’t think it’s necessary, any more than safewords are. For some relationships. But for others? Both might be a good idea.
And no, this isn’t fully thought out. But I’m thinking.
What do you think?