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New Toyko Decadence – Pink Eiga 

This is about ethics and humiliation play, with a quick dad’splain about ethical exhibitionism.

Ok.  So.  If you’ve got an exhibitionist kink it’s still unethical to involve others without their consent.  So while it’s super hot to think about, and really hot to be in semi-public situations where you could almost get caught, it’s a total dick move to expose either yourself or a partner where unsuspecting people might see you.

This is actually well understood in the kink community.  And exhibitionism is its own kink.

Now let’s consider humilation play.

Not everyone’s into humiliation, anymore than everyone’s into exhibitionism (or any other kink!)  But!  For some people humilation play is hot as blazes!

I have to admit I didn’t really get it till a submissive friend explained it.  And then melted into a yummy little horny mess when I tried it.  (It wasn’t a hard limit for me but till I got the hang of it I probably needed more aftercare than she did!)

Anyway.  Just as the risk (and possible shame, incidentally) of being seen is usually hot enough, the idea of humiliation and shame is usually hot enough too.

But as with exhibitionism, never involve third parties in your erotic humiliation play without their consent either.