tstyfrz:

coffeemorning-whiskeyevening:

lanceoutlaw38:

Thought this had a powerful message. If we could only see ourselves through the eyes of the people that care about us, we might be able to let go of all our own self doubt and body image issues. It’s hard to love someone else when you struggle to love yourself.

I could not agree with this more!!

Wonderful, need to remind myself of this every day!

We have absolute veto over what anyone else wants us to do. But we only get one vote when it comes to opinions about our attractiveness. This only seems like a contradiction.

If someone finds you attractive you may disagree with them but they are not wrong.

This is even more important for men, who seem to be absolute shit at recognizing what women find good looking in men.