Unfriendly reminder that this is at its heart a feminist blog and if you’re genuinely misogynistic I don’t want you following me. I will occasionally post misogynistic fantasies because the thought of being owned property is really hot – but I am still a feminist and anyone I’ve ever served has understood, respected and supported that. BDSM should be empowering, not oppressive.

This!  If it’s not between equal partners, mutually respectful partners it’s not kink, it’s abuse, codependence, or old-school patriarchy. If it’s not between equal partners it’s also creepy as hell.