← Previous PostI have an open marriage. My husband is dominant but not a Dom. I have never been trained. I connected with a Dom who is a sadist. After several conversations we met & we proceeded to talk about limits. My limit is no marks that last longer than a play session and no bruises. Our first time, he whipped me w/his belt leaving a large bruise. He admits he pushed me past my limit & said he would like to find a balance between my limit & still satisfy his needs. Should I give him another chance? →