What would you do if she had a break down out of no where and just wanted to be held?

dontgetwisewithme:

That’s when you jump into caretaker mode and you hold that girl until she feels good enough to talk and then you talk and work through what’s happening or just listen or tell her a funny story.  That’s when real life kicks in and that’s when all this role playing the big bad man goes right out the window and you act like a human being and take care of the person who has put her trust in you.  Real life gets real sometimes, bring it on.  

“That’s when real life kicks in and that’s when all this role playing the big bad man goes right out the window and you act like a human being…”

This.  Be a human being.  Always let your lover be one too.