Would it be a problem if you sub was already wet? Bc some man doesn’t like it when they didn’t “cause, make” it.


Yeah, just like it’s a problem if a man’s already hard just from thinking about something sexual that’s about to happen.

Oh wait, that’s not a problem either!

Let’s get super, cold-bloodedly clinical for a second here.


Pfffft, that’s less work for me. ???????? Some men are clueless boys.

Genital response to sexual stimuli may be an evolved self-protection mechanism. 
  Female genital response is an automatic reflex that is elicited by sexual stimuli and produces vaginal lubrication, even if the woman does not subjectively feel sexually aroused…Female genital response entails increased genital vasocongestion, necessary for the production of vaginal lubrication, and can, in turn, reduce discomfort and the possibility of injury during vaginal penetration.
  Ancestral women who did not show an automatic vaginal response to sexual cues may have been more likely to experience injuries that resulted in illness, infertility, or even death subsequent to unexpected or unwanted vaginal penetration, and thus would be less likely to have passed on this trait to their offspring. 

– clinical psychologist Meredith Chivers and her colleagues reporting on a meta-analysis of 132 papers on the genital measures of sexual arousal

Sooo romantic, right?

I’d just add that if anybody would know about women’s autonomic responses to sexual stimulation when they’re not aroused it would be clinical and “evolutionary” psychologists.  For whom women’s arousal, women’s orgasms, and women’s pussies in general are the biggest, most fucking mysterious puzzle on the goddamn planet.  But I digress.

The point being that for most women getting wet is usually the first thing that happens.  And doesn’t even have to mean she’s turned on yet.


Yeah, clue for the clueless boy: if your sweetie’s wet even before you touched her you caused it.

You could be causing it even if you’re 100% incapable of turning her on.  Possibly even if you 100% revolt her.

Worry about something else.  

Worry about having exactly zero fucking clue.  

Worry about what are you going to do when she gets a clue and kicks your sorry ass to the curb.