You have to have control before you can truly relinquish it to another.
Self-efficacy; competently navigating one’s environment; self-regulation. When you have these things (via hard work and discipline) and then relinquish control of various aspects of your life and being – THAT is active submission.
Submission is not the easy way out of adulting. Not even close.
Submission is not the easy way out of adulting. Not even close.
Seriously!