You kids are hilarious. You run a kinky sex blog then act so shocked and appalled when solicited for sex. That’s like me running a blog to display tattoos I’ve done and ones I like then getting all bent out of shape If someone said they wanted me to tattoo them. My natural response is ” thank you that’s flattering but I only tattoo friends and family unless you are willing to pay extra and travel”

grimygurl:

lol except its not similar at all bc I’m selling sexual services and, although I know its shocking to those of you uneducated civilians, you still in fact need consent to engage w sex workers sexually. my consent depends on my payment, so when people who havent payed me send me unsolicited sexual shit, it is in fact just as much sexual harassment as it would be if I werent a sex worker bc what u ignorant assholes love to forget is that sex workers are human beings selling services, not walking talking fleshlights<3 pls educate urself before sending another message like this to any sex worker ty

“My consent depends on my payment, so when people who haven’t paid send me sexual shit, it is in fact just as much sexual harassment as it would be if I wasn’t a sexworker.”

Awesome breakdown of the role of consent in sexwork and, by extension, all producers of sexual content – whether for pay or for fun or for the hell of it.