Kink doesnât treat a mental health issues.
But, Kink Aware Professionals do!https://ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals-directory/kap-directory-homepage
Need help with those ropeburns?
Or maybe some nasty issues with subdrop,
Maybe even the occasional mishap like a knife in your own foot ( @instructor144 )?
Or the big three, depression, self harm, or bipolar?These are the professionals for youâŠ.
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Extra bonus point: your kink canât treat someone elseâs mental health issue!!!
- You canât Dom someone out of their eating or other compulsive disorder
- You canât Daddy someone out of their anxiety or abandonment issues
- You canât Submit someone out of their control or (dear God) anger issues
- Hell, you canât even plain old vanilla fuck someone out of their hypo- or hyper sexuality!
At best youâre just helping them mask it or, worse, âsublimateâ it. At worst youâre caring codependent and making their problem much, much worse!
Love conquers all much! But just like you canât âpray away the gayâ or love away diabetes you canât kink away depression.
Doesnât mean donât get involved with people with mental health issues. It does mean you need to support their care, not provide it.
And needless to say you canât expect or demand a partner to treat your mental-healthissue.
Have sex, donât use it.