blackfemalepresident:

the sex positivity movement should never forget asexuals, abstinent & celibate people

being comfortable with not being interested in sex is just as important as being comfortable with having sex

The actual sex-positive community has always stood up for aces and grays and plain old celibate people.

In fact asking someone’s take on asexuality or celibacy is one of the best ways to weed out real sex-positive people and poseurs!

Good answer: you’re ace, oh cool. What do you want to have for dinner?