Who’s on top…
An older, experienced gentleman knows that whoever is on top will have an easier time having an orgasm.
This is not new information by the way. The “missionary” kinksters of the Victorian era understood the best way to get sex over with to nobody’s real satisfaction was to put the premature ejaculators on top and their slower-to-come partners on the bottom.
Thanks to the influence of all those Victorian “for reproduction only” missionaries we tend to waaay overemphasize coming from fucking vs all the other ways two people can share each other’s orgasms. So this is not an argument for or against one partner or another being on top.
But it is worth noting that someone who’s on top will typically have an easier time coming than when they’re on the bottom.
