Make me admit stuff?
1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged?
2. You talked to an ex today, correct?
3. Have you taken someones virginity?
4. Is trust a big issue for you?
5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently?
6. What are you excited for?
7. What happened tonight?
8. Do you think itās disgusting when girls get really wasted?
9. Is confidence cute?
10. What is the last beverage you had?
11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust?
12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans?
13. What are you gonna do Saturday night?
14. What are you going to spend money on next?
15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed?
16. Do you think youāll change in the next 3 months?
17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything?
18. The last time you felt broken?
19. Have you had sex today?
20. Are you starting to realize anything?
21. Are you in a good mood?
22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks?
23. Are your eyes the same color as your dadās?
24. What do you want right this second?
25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy?
26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color?
27. Would you be able to date someone who doesnāt make you laugh?
28. What was the last thing that made you laugh?
29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now?
30. Does everyone deserve a second chance?
31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to?
32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do?
33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda?
34. Listening to?
35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore?
36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is?
37. Do you believe in love at first sight?
38. Who did you last call?
39. Who was the last person you danced with?
40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake?
42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today?
43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush?
44. Do you tan in the nude?
45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?
46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night?
47. Who was the last person to call you?
48. Do you sing in the shower?
49. Do you dance in the car?
50. Ever used a bow and arrow?
51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?
52. Do you think musicals are cheesy?
53. Is Christmas stressful?
54. Ever eat a pierogi?
55. Favorite type of fruit pie?
56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?
57. Do you believe in ghosts?
58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?
59. Take a vitamin daily?
60. Wear slippers?
61. Wear a bath robe?
62. What do you wear to bed?
63. First concert?
64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?
65. Nike or Adidas?
66. Cheetos Or Fritos?
67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds?
68. Favorite Taylor Swift song?
69. Ever take dance lessons?
70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing?
71. Can you curl your tongue?
72. Ever won a spelling bee?
73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?
74. What is your favorite book?
75. Do you study better with or without music?
76. Regularly burn incense?
77. Ever been in love?
78. Who would you like to see in concert?
79. What was the last concert you saw?
80. Hot tea or cold tea?
81. Tea or coffee?
82. Favorite type of cookie?
83. Can you swim well?
84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?
85. Are you patient?
86. DJ or band, at a wedding?
87. Ever won a contest?
88. Ever have plastic surgery?
89. Which are better black or green olives?
90. Opinions on sex before marriage?
91. Best room for a fireplace?
92. Do you want to get married?A little fun before heading to bed. Ask away.
1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged?
No
2. You talked to an ex today, correct?
Sort of. Iāve texted with someone I was involved with long ago
3. Have you taken someones virginity?
Yes.Ā Sort of.Ā Iāve had sex with more people for their first time.Ā Ā āVirginityā is kind of a gross concept thatās historically had way more to do with property rights than human rights.
4. Is trust a big issue for you?
Yes.Ā Though really the better my boundaries the easier it is for me to trust people.
5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently?
People I like, yes, recently.Ā A person I like?Ā Sadly no.
6. What are you excited for?
A mini-vacation / business trip coming up soon.Ā Interviewing a possible new employee so I can someday take real vacations.
7. What happened tonight?
Itās the middle of the afternoon!
8. Do you think itās disgusting when girls get really wasted?
No.Ā Itās complicated.Ā But not disgusting.Ā I go into caregiver mode.Ā Itās particularly messy if theyāre wasted andĀ want to be sexual becauseĀ āconsentā is short forĀ ācompetent consent.āĀ If someoneās too wasted to drive theyāre too wasted to consent.
Not sure why thereās a gender question involved: itās concerning when anyoneĀ gets really wasted, isnāt it?
9. Is confidence cute?
Confidence is awesome!
10. What is the last beverage you had?
Short Americano with cream
11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust?
Most of them – about as many as people of the same sex
12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans?
No
13. What are you gonna do Saturday night?
Iāll be done with my dayās activities and hanging out socially with people Iāll be meeting on my business trip.
14. What are you going to spend money on next?
Food, housing, airport parking
15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed?
No
16. Do you think youāll change in the next 3 months?
Iād like to say yes but it might take longer.
17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything?
Strangers on the internet, tbh!
18. The last time you felt broken?
Itās been years.Ā I get episodic depression, which used to leave me feelingĀ ābroken,ā but now I look at it the same way I do the flu, a migraine, or a sprained ankle.Ā Iām notĀ ābrokenā when Iāve got the flu, just miserable, right?Ā So Iām notĀ ābrokenā when my serotonin goes out of whack either – just miserable.Ā Ā
19. Have you had sex today?
Sadly no.
20. Are you starting to realize anything?
Iām not as old and ugly as I feel.Ā Iāve felt ugly as long as I can remember, I first felt old when I turned 19!Ā Feelings arenāt strictly bullshit, but theyāre highly suspect.Ā Itās as narcissistic to disagree with others who think youāre attractive as it is to imagine youāre attractive when no one else agrees.
21. Are you in a good mood?
I seem to be.Ā I blame that Americano.Ā Mmm, caffeine!
22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks?
I actually swam with sharks once.Ā Friends say it looked like I levitated out of the water.Ā Iād seen the sharks.Ā I didnāt want to swim with them then, donāt want to repeat the experience ever.Ā
23. Are your eyes the same color as your dadās?
No.Ā Well sort of.Ā His were more brown, mine are a little more greenish-brown.
24. What do you want right this second?
A nap, but seeĀ āAmericano,ā above.
25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy?
Awesome.Ā Go for it.Ā I might be sad for me if they preferredĀ someone else.Ā But Iād be happy for them.Ā WhoĀ they kissed wouldnāt really matter, would it?
26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color?
Yes
27. Would you be able to date someone who doesnāt make you laugh?
Laugh?Ā No.Ā Not if they made me smile.
28. What was the last thing that made you laugh?
Ugh.Ā Iām so bad at remembering jokes.Ā It was a meme though.
29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now?
Yes!Ā I miss my children when they were small.Ā I love them madly now that theyāre grown, but miss being able to carry them both upstairs at the same time and read to them at bedtime.
30. Does everyone deserve a second chance?
EverybodyĀ deserves a second chance because weāre all human.Ā Itās up to us whether we give them a third chance, because weĀ deserve that.
31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to?
Honestly, no.Ā Heās fine.
32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do?
Yes.
33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda?
I no longer drink soda.Ā Well.Ā Except in rootbeer floats.Ā Because rootbeer floats!!!!
34. Listening to?
The world around me.Ā (I canāt listen to music and do anything else.)
35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore?
Iām writing with one now!Ā Oh wait, no Iām not!Ā But thereās one right next to my keyboard (also two or three pens.)
36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is?
Sadly no.Ā
37. Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes.Ā Ā
38. Who did you last call?
A business associate
39. Who was the last person you danced with?
Canāt really remember.Ā Itās been a while though.Ā Friends at a party for sure, just canāt remember which party.
40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
To say good bye and safe travels.
41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake?
Maybe a few weeks ago?Ā I like cupcakes.
42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today?
I would if I could but both have passed away.Ā Iād love to talk to them even more than hug them.
43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush?
Pretty much every single crush Iāve ever had, going back to the cute girl in 2nd grade.Ā (I still sometimes cringe about that one, even though in retrospect I was just a cute little boy.)
44. Do you tan in the nude?
When Iām at a nude beach, hot tub, or house Iāll go naked.Ā But I got my first pre-cancerous lesion burned off at age 25.Ā So the less sun exposure I get the happier I am.
45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?
Not a chance
46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night?
Talked to someone till bedtime.Ā Said good night then went to bed.
47. Who was the last person to call you?
A contractor
48. Do you sing in the shower?
Sadly no.
49. Do you dance in the car?
Only rarely.Ā But yes.
50. Ever used a bow and arrow?
Sort of.Ā Iām terrible at it.
51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?
About four years ago.
52. Do you think musicals are cheesy?
Cheesy musicals are cheesy.Ā Good musicals are good.Ā More often itās the production that makes it cheesy, not the musical itself.
53. Is Christmas stressful?
No.Ā I enjoy all the winter holidays.
54. Ever eat a pierogi?
Mmmm, perogies and kielbasa fried with tons of onion, with sour cream on the side?Ā Got introduced to them by an old sweetheartās family.Ā Themās good eatin!
55. Favorite type of fruit pie?
Apple!
56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?
Scientist
57. Do you believe in ghosts?
Not sure what a ghost would be.Ā Not ruling it out.Ā But Iād want a material, non-āsupernaturalā explanation for the phenomenon.
58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?
Oh yeah.Ā Rarely a profound one.Ā But… itās a weird, funny feeling!
59. Take a vitamin daily?
I do.Ā Ā
60. Wear slippers?
No.Ā I grew up in rural Appalachia so if Iām not wearing real shoes I go barefoot unless itās freezing and Iāll be outside for more than half an hour.
61. Wear a bath robe?
Iāve got a big, thickĀ āObi wan Kenobiā robe thatās awesome.Ā I donāt wear it as much as I used to.
62. What do you wear to bed?
Nothing!
63. First concert?
Wow.Ā Probably a symphony when I was a little kid?Ā I think it might have been a performance of Camille Saint-SaĆ«nsās Carnival of the Animals?Ā Either that or one of the original bluegrass bands.
64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?
Target
65. Nike or Adidas?
Whateverās comfortable
66. Cheetos Or Fritos?
Cheetos!
67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds?
Peanuts!
68. Favorite Taylor Swift song?
To be honest I donāt think Iāve ever heard a Taylor Swift song!Ā Iām sure Iāve heard her but I have a veryĀ hard time telling pop musicians apart.
69. Ever take dance lessons?
Yes.Ā They traumatized me for life.Ā (Iāll never square dance!)Ā I took swing dance lessons but was never very good at it.Ā Iād like to give it another go – thereās a real renaissance in swing and ballroom dancing going on these days.
70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing?
Iām not likely to marry again (see below) but I support every partner no matter what she wants to do.Ā
71. Can you curl your tongue?
Yes
72. Ever won a spelling bee?
Ok.Ā True fact.Ā I was terribleĀ at spelling!Ā Youāll probably notice from all my typos!Ā But for some reason in 8th Grade I made it to the #2 position in my school.Ā They werenāt even all easy words, I just happened to know or could guess how to spell them.Ā At the end it was me and another kid, a good friend who really didĀ know how to spell.Ā Whoever one would go to the city-wide spelling bee.Ā Weād already gone three or four rounds with no errors.Ā I remember looking at him, knowing he not only would do a better job but he really wanted and deserved it.Ā And so I deliberately spelledĀ āillustrateā incorrectly.
73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?
Oh my yes!Ā Every wedding.Ā At the national anthem at high-school football games.Ā When my children were born.Ā When they graduated.Ā If youāve never been happy enough to cry real tears of joy youāre missing a treat.
74. What is your favorite book?
Hannah ArendtāsĀ āThe Human Conditionā
75. Do you study better with or without music?
I canāt do anythingĀ but listen while musicās playing.
76. Regularly burn incense?
No.Ā I mean Iāve burned incense.Ā And when my home or office gets stale and stinky I set fir to bits of sagebrush Iāve picked east of the mountains.Ā (This is not ritualĀ āsmudgingā because that wouldnāt be respectful.)Ā Ā
77. Ever been in love?
Ahahah!Ā Oh my yes!Ā Of course!
78. Who would you like to see in concert?
Bobby McFerrin, Joan Armatrading, the old Red Clay Ramblers, Jimi Hendrix
79. What was the last concert you saw?
Johnny Clegg
80. Hot tea or cold tea?
Hot, usually.Ā Iced tea is awesome though.
81. Tea or coffee?
Coffee
82. Favorite type of cookie?
Oatmeal raisin, Nutterbutter peanut butter, shortbread, Girl Scout Samosas
83. Can you swim well?
I can swim but not well.Ā GIve me flippers, a mask, and a snorkel and Iām evidently fearless.
84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?
Yes.
85. Are you patient?
Iāve made it to answer #85!Ā So yes.Ā And more seriously, yes.
86. DJ or band, at a wedding?
Band!
87. Ever won a contest?
I think so.Ā Almost won that spelling bee (above!)
88. Ever have plastic surgery?
Ironically yes.Ā Iāve had to have several corrective surgeries on my jaws and nose.Ā These were done by surgeons who tended to do plastic surgery.Ā All internal, though, so, sadly, my face looks exactly the same!
89. Which are better black or green olives?
This isnāt a contest.Ā Theyāre both awesome.
90. Opinions on sex before marriage?
Sex before breakfast is awesome too!
91. Best room for a fireplace?
Den, living room, outdoors
92. Do you want to get married?
I was engaged to one person, was engaged and married to someone else.Ā I donāt think of myself as old but I donāt think Iāll get married again.Ā For me, anyway, marriage is about raising a family, and if I somehow could start over (Iāve already had one vasectomy, a reversal, and another vasectomy so the ends are going to be a little tattered down there) Iād be truly old before they could graduate from college.Ā So no.