daddyscuriouslittlekitty:

watthefuck11:

Arch that back princess…. you know how Daddy likes it…

Ok, just being a Daddy here and not a Dom (or just a vanilla asshole) but…

I’m pretty sure when you arch like that it gives you a lot more contact on your g-spot, makes sure I’m not going to bump your cervix, and might even give you a little more of that “full” feeling than you’d get from just my dick.

So much of what we call “submission” is just doing things that feel better for you.  Doesn’t make it any less submissive if you’re an actual Sub, but maximizing angles, contact, or enjoyment doesn’t make you a Sub, does it?

Not to go all gender studies or social theory here – it’s still a hot image – but funny how society turns what penis-receivers do just to make things work into signifiers for social, non-sexual submission.

Kneeling?  “Presenting?”  Arching?  Turning eyes down or closed so you can concentrate?  Bending over?

Not knocking D/S at all (mmm, D/S!) but telling you to “arch your back” is sort of like the fox putting the rabbit in the briar patch, isn’t it?

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