Is it selfish of him, if when he finishes everything’s finished? Or is it just me being needy?
I mean, yea, of course it is him being selfish
PSA.
Ahahahahah!!! OMFG!!! The question basically answers itself, doesnāt it?
Weird personal history. I had this totally vanilla, totally matter-if-fact partner who was a sweet and steamy and attentive lover… until she had an orgasm, at which point sheād be like āthatās out of the way, letās go fold the laundry.ā Exactly āone and doneā times nine. But basically every horny hormone in her body disappeared.
One day weād been making out, slow-seducing each other. I said I gotta pee Iāll be right back. Maybe 20 seconds later she strolls in, fully dressed, and starts brushing her teeth. WTF says I. Oh, I rubbed one out while you were gone says she. Turned my back for 20 seconds and thatās it for the day! Like I said, very matter of fact.
Anyway, Iām gonna say there are actually three possibilities
- Theyāre selfish
- Theyāre totally fucking oblivious
- Umm…
Ok, there are actually only two possibilities.