Is it selfish of him, if when he finishes everything’s finished? Or is it just me being needy?

marmalade79:

adomsmind:

I mean, yea, of course it is him being selfish

PSA.

Ahahahahah!!! OMFG!!! The question basically answers itself, doesnā€™t it?

Weird personal history. I had this totally vanilla, totally matter-if-fact partner who was a sweet and steamy and attentive lover… until she had an orgasm, at which point sheā€™d be like ā€œthatā€™s out of the way, letā€™s go fold the laundry.ā€ Exactly ā€œone and doneā€ times nine. But basically every horny hormone in her body disappeared.

One day weā€™d been making out, slow-seducing each other. I said I gotta pee Iā€™ll be right back. Maybe 20 seconds later she strolls in, fully dressed, and starts brushing her teeth. WTF says I. Oh, I rubbed one out while you were gone says she. Turned my back for 20 seconds and thatā€™s it for the day! Like I said, very matter of fact.

Anyway, Iā€™m gonna say there are actually three possibilities

  1. Theyā€™re selfish
  2. Theyā€™re totally fucking oblivious
  3. Umm…

Ok, there are actually only two possibilities.